The table below outlines some of the key differences between mediation and court.
£1,000–£3,000 per person
Often weeks
Shared with a small, agreed group
Lower conflict
Supports communication
You decide together
Judge formally approves the agreement
£15,000–£30,000+ per person*
Often many months or longer
Shared with multiple professionals
High conflict
Often escalates conflict
A judge decides
Judge directs and decides the outcome
*Indicative UK averages based on guidance from the Family Mediation Council, MoneyHelper, and published UK family law cost information. Figures reflect typical low-conflict cases and exclude complex litigation.
Professionals support the process - the decisions remain yours.
Both parties
Mediator
Independent legal advice (If helpful)
Solicitor prepares the consent order
Judge formally approves the agreement
An expensive, lengthy and often exhausting process, where decisions are made for you.
Both parties
Your solicitor
The other party
Their solicitor
Formal legal arguments and evidence
Multiple hearings and additional professionals (such as barristers)
Judge decides the outcome
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